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Parenting Parents with The Islamic Counseling Approac

Marhamah Marhamah

Abstract

This paper aims to determine parenting parents with an Islamic counseling approach. A library study method was used to review documentation in the form of books, journals, and other relevant articles. The results of the study showed that parents were the first and foremost places of education that had a major influence on children's personality development. In carrying out parenting activities there were three parenting styles, namely authoritative, authoritarian and permissive, each of which had an important contribution in establishing a child's personality. Guidance and counseling in Islam was a process of giving assistance to individuals to re-realize their existence as beings (creations) of Allah who should live according to Allah's provisions and instructions. Parenting with an Islamic counseling approach was not just about solving children's problems but also so that children could achieve safety and happiness in the world and in the hereafter. Parenting with the Islamic counseling approach used exemplary and habituation methods.

Keywords

Islamic Counseling, Parenting, Parents, Personality

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DOI: 10.21043/kr.v10i1.3792

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