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Is Crisis Counseling Effective for Overcoming Divorce Psychological Trauma For Former Wife Couples ?

Agoes Dariyo

Abstract

Divorce has the impact of psychological trauma which is felt directly by the former husband and wife, because they have failed to maintain the integrity of their marital relationship. Prolonged psychological trauma will have a negative impact on ex-husbands and wives, including depression and even suicide. Therefore, professional treatment is needed to resolve psychological trauma problems for married couples after divorce. This research is a qualitative study that seeks to understand crisis counseling to overcome post-divorce psychological trauma for former husband and wife couples. The data collection technique uses structured interviews. The research involved 2 subjects who were former husband and wife couples. The research results showed that crisis counseling was able to encourage ex-husband and wife subjects to overcome psychological trauma, face the realities of life and take on a responsible role as parents towards biological children born previously.

Keywords

crisis counseling, psychological trauma, post-divorce, former wife couples.

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DOI: 10.21043/kr.v15i2.28777